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I'm just an ordinary girl who love life. You can judge be, but still you don't know the real me.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

You always in my heart ~~

Middle of the night and I can't stop thinking of him. I miss him like crazy, but i know that we have to accept the fact that he has gone. May him Rest In Peace and you will always in our heart.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

--诚实的难度--

最简单的,最难得!- 吴若权-

--诚实的难度--
一味的要救对方诚实的时候,
应该先测量自己所能够接受事实的程度。


诚实,是一种美德。
但是,谁没撒过谎
在人生的舞台上,要救诚实,并非缘木求鱼,但我们应该认真想想:自己对于诚实,是否也早已经失去免疫力?

这样的感叹,来自朋友间一则真实的案例。
他经常出轨的行径,被相爱七年的女友,不断提出质疑。
每一回当他偷吃完嘴巴没有擦干净的时候,她就循之蛛丝马迹找到他偷腥的证据。
甚者,有过几次捉奸在床的纪录。

不管她怎样罪證確鏨地逼供,他的反应始终如一,抵死不认账_____从[没有。没有!] 到 [我保证,绝对没有。]
她就接受他的释疑,把一切对爱情的不信任都悄悄抹去。
直到有一次,她在质问他之前,先找到某位很倒霉的第三者,在毫无心理准备的情况下,听到对方诚实的承认:[似的,我真的很喜欢你的男朋友,所以情不自禁的跟他发生了几次亲密关系。]

由于女方已经招供,他也没有说话。
当他的第三者相爱的事实,严重到连[一夜风流]都无法掩盖,偷情的这一对男女,竟然用[诚实]把她逼上绝路。
知道事实的那天下午,她从二十五层楼的高度,一跃而下
跳楼自杀前,她打了一通电话给他的三人共同认识的一位朋友,谈笑风生地说:[我现在才发现她正的已经爱上别人了。]

事实,得却非常残酷。
诚实,有它一定的高度
当痴情的人们一味要地要求对方诚实的时候,常常忘了先测量自己能够接受事实的程度。
她走了,留下了很深的遗憾,以及很多的问号。

朋友说:[为什么她被骗一百次,都没出事,却经不起一次对方的诚实?]

诚实,只能用来自我要求,你可以希望自己具备高尚的品德,而无法用来要求别人。
当别人不守承诺时,你怎么忍心让幻灭的梦想拖着疲倦的身躯,从二十五楼堕落?
如果,我们自己都还做不到百分之百的诚实,又何必苛求对方完全透明
即使,我们已经做到百分之百的诚实,也必须放下身段,学会原谅对方情非得已的不诚实。
诚实,可以是一面镜子;
但绝不能是一把刀子!
不要因为要却诚实,而伤害别人,毁灭自己!

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Forget about the past, and move forward to the future!!

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Anouk - if you were mine

lyrics:
I lay my weapon down
Won?t fight no more
Tryin?to get you by my side
Though I have been in love before
But they could never
Take my clouds away

Babe if you were mine
I wont hestitate at all
You just let me know
I?ll be the one to catch your fall
Anything you need
Don?t keep me away
You make me so confused
The one I love loves someone else

Don?t stop the music it feels good
It keeps my mind of me missing you
Keep the rain away
There is nothing for me here
Without you by my side

?Cause babe if you were mine
I wont hesitate at all
You just let me know
I?ll be the one to catch your fall
Anything you need
Don?t keep me away
You make me so confused
The one I love loves someone else

Baby what?s it gonna be
Is it gonna be her or me
Tell me what I have to do
?cause I know that I?m good for you

And baby when you?re mine
I wont hesitate at all
You just let me know
I?ll be the one to catch your fall
Anything you need
Don?t keep me away
You make me so confused
The one I love loves someone else

Babe if you were mine
If you were mine
Babe if you were mine

Saturday, August 6, 2011

what do u think,
if a person pass away, where will they go ?

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

is kind a shock news for me when my sis show me a msg from my mom say that my grandpa pass away. i feel bad for it, since that i didn't go back for Gawai festival this year, and our last meet was last year. i know that he admitted to hospital about 3 weeks goes, and he told my auntie that he miss me and wanna see me. i feel guilty for it.
sometimes when you think that "oh, never mind, we will meet again next time", but you will never know that what will happen tomorrow.
appreciate everything that u have right now, every moment u on

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

等待能让一个人崩溃。。。